Do you ever get the feeling that someone is avoiding you and you can't figure out why? One of my favorite people hasn't really been talking to me lately, and when she is, it's superficial stuff. (How was your day. etc) I know she must be busy, but I can't get over the feeling that I've somehow offended her. Politics? Religion? Family?
I don't know. Maybe I'm just paranoid and she's just busy. Or maybe she just likes her new friends better. lol
Still, I can't help but be a little hurt. More than that, I'm worried that I hurt/offended HER in some way. That's the last thing I'd want to do.
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Is it someone you can be open enough with to ask? That is what I do with my close friends, and I think I have saved a couple friendships that way...
I would just ask. Better to know what the issue is/if there is an issue than to worry. Besides, my imagination is wild and I would be thinking "worst case scenario" when it was probably nothing.
That's what I thought too and I've been trying to open lines of communication with her but it hasn't gone that well. Maybe it was a bad time. I don't know.
I sent her a more direct message yesterday afternoon, and haven't heard anything. Hopefully I will.
Hmm, that is a very tough situation. I hate when things like that happen. It's so hard to handle.
I do get that feeling every now and then, and as much as I hate to say it, it usually turns out to be right. I agree that trying to talk to her is the way to go. Good luck!
Well, it's been quite a few days and no response. I'm not going to ask her again, I feel like a needy idiot. I assume she will respond sometime. I can't help but be slightly annoyed that she responds to EVERYONE on FB and the like, but can't return my message. I don't know. I just thought we were friends...
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